一篇关于爱情观的英语作文

When the conversation comes to love, it always raise the biggest emotion, reaction and passion.But,What is love?"Love is that feeling you get when you meet the right person. "This is how many people approach a relationship. Consciously or unconsciously, they believe love is a sensation based on physical and emotional attraction that magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isnt there" anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it.The key word is passivity. Erich Fromm, in his famous treatise "The Art of Loving," noted the sad consequence of this misconception: "There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet, which fails so regularly, as love." That was back in 1956 chances are hed be even more pessimistic today.So what is real, lasting love?Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating anothers goodness.LOVE IS A CHOICEIf love comes from appreciating goodness, it neednt just happen you can make it happen. Love is active. You can create it. Just focus on the good in another person and everyone has some. If you can do this easily, youll love easily.